I am going to write a character blog now. It's 4:10 and I will be writing something till 4:40 pm. Let's start a character blog on Adolf Hitler. I know he did a lot of crimes, but he was a leader people really looked up to and he had the words that would certainly change the minds of people and he had an influence on the people he led. So let's think of his quotes. Actually you know what hitler is not someone I endorse. But it's just one quote I would take from him and the rest of the blog will consist of someone else. So here is the quote that I want to add.
Condemn none: If you can stretch out a helping hand, do so. If you cannot, fold your hands, bless your brothers, and let them go their own way. I love this. Condemn none. Now what this really means is that one should not express disapproval of anyone too strongly. In fact one has to stretch a helping hand. And if one cannot fold their hands, then bless your brothers and let them go their own way. I really like this quote too. When we don't condemn anyone, we need to simply stretch a helping hand out. We need to tell people that we are going to help them and help your brothers out. I feel it's important that we help each other out because that builds a community. A strong helping hand is all we need to build a community. The next that he talks about is let them go their own way. So what can we learn from this statement of Swami Vivekananda. He teaches us that we should not really say ill about anyone. If we can stretch out our helping hand, fine. But if we cannot do them, just fold your hands and let them go. This is a practical teaching by Swami Vivekananda.
The highest manifestation of strength is to keep ourselves calm and on our own feet. I like this idea too. To keep yourself calm and on our own feet.
True strength is not loud. It doesn’t need to shout or prove itself to anyone. It shows itself in stillness, in restraint, in the quiet confidence of a person who does not let chaos shake their core. When life throws challenges, when people provoke us, when circumstances are uncertain, the strongest among us are those who remain centered, who don’t crumble under pressure or seek validation from outside.
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stay calm is to have control over your emotions. It means you are not a puppet to anger, anxiety, or fear. You observe, you understand, and you respond with wisdom, not impulse. Calmness is a sign of inner mastery. It shows you trust yourself, even when the world around you is spinning.
To stay on your own feet means to rely on your own principles, your own values, and your own effort. It’s about not leaning excessively on others to define your worth or carry you through. It's not arrogance or isolation, it's independence rooted in self-awareness. You can walk beside people, love them, support them, but you are not dependent on them for your balance.
Together, calmness and self-reliance create an unshakable foundation. You become someone who is grounded, resilient, and powerful in silence. That’s the kind of strength the world needs more of, not flashy dominance, but quiet, steady presence.
Love this. One ounce of practice is worth a thousand pounds of theory. I like this idea. We all have this idea that coding comes from learning about coding. However, coding comes from doing coding. Thinking about writing does not teach us writing. Writing about something teaches us about something. Any skill that we wish to develop does not come from learning about the skill. Its going to come from doing the skill. I feel that's how one has to live their lives. Live your life by doing and not just learning about something. You can learn as much about gyming but if you don't go to the gym regularly, there's no point.
Believe in yourself and the world will be at your feet. Wow. So beautiful. That's the truth about believing in yourself. A lot of times we think that we can't do something. We say negative things to ourselves from ourselves. However, one has to believe in themselves and do their own thing. This way you will be able to live in a better way. You will be able to tell yourself that one has to believe in thyself. No matter what the situation, one has to believe. Belief in oneself can never be shaken by anything that hits you. So go ahead and believe in yourself. Anyways that's one part of belief that you have to understand. The other part is going to be what's the thing that's most important for you. You have to be aware. The most important thing is survival and you yourself. So when you don't believe in yourself, you won't be able to survive. So survival in itself is a mechanism where we choose to believe in ourself and our own potential. That way we will be able to give more and achieve more in life.
Although it's not always easy to believe in yourself. But there are practical ways to believe in yourself. You have to think positive firstly. Never ever think negative about yourself. Secondly keep your past in the past. It does not define your future. Thirdly, go ahead and keep moving forward in life. The idea of being valuable is to believe in yourself on the days no one else does. That's where life is formed. When you believe in yourself and the way you come out of a situation is more important than anything else.
Have faith in yourselves, and stand up on that faith and be strong. Everything in life begins with belief and the most important belief is the one you hold in yourself. Before the world trusts you, before anyone else sees your worth, you must see it first. Faith in yourself is not ego or arrogance, it's the quiet conviction that you have what it takes to rise, to grow, to overcome.
When you stand up on that faith, you stop waiting for approval or permission. You begin to walk your own path, fueled not by fear or doubt, but by purpose and confidence. You take risks. You make bold choices. You learn from failures without letting them define you, because deep down, you know you’re capable of getting back up every time.
To be strong doesn't mean being unbreakable, it means being unshakable in your self-belief, even when things don’t go your way. It means trusting your instincts, honoring your values, and standing tall in your truth, even if you stand alone.
We are what our thoughts have made us; so take care about what you think. Words are secondary. Thoughts live; they travel far. Wow. So if you think positive about a situation, you win. However, when you think negative about something that's tough, you can lose also. So go ahead and think positive. If you think that relationship that did not work out for you was bad, think about what it gave you back. It gave you your freedom, your time, your passions everything back. You can do what you want to, whenever you want to. Think about the positives every time. Difficult moments come and go, but the moments where we need to stay is more important. So go ahead and make a life of good moments.
Practical Tips:
1. Condemn None – Practice Compassion & Detachment
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Pause before judgment: When you feel like judging someone, ask: “Do I know their whole story?” or “Can I help instead?”
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Offer help or silently bless: If you can't help someone practically, mentally wish them well and move on without resentment.
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Avoid gossip: Don't engage in conversations where others are being condemned behind their back.
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Journal instead of react: If someone annoys you, write your feelings instead of acting on them. You’ll learn to let go without hurting.
🔹 2. Calm and Self-Reliance – Practice Inner Strength
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Start your day with 10 minutes of silence (meditation or just sitting quietly).
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Build emotional distance: When someone angers you, take 3 deep breaths before replying.
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Practice being alone: Go for solo walks, eat a meal by yourself, or go to a café alone to build comfort in your own presence.
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Write your own principles: Define your personal values and refer to them in tough decisions. This keeps you standing on your own feet.
🔹 3. One Ounce of Practice – Build Habits, Not Just Ideas
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Follow the 2-minute rule: If a task takes less than 2 minutes, do it now. It builds action over delay.
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Skill-up daily: Pick one skill (e.g., writing, coding, communication) and commit 30 mins a day, no excuses.
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Make “doing” your identity: Tell yourself: “I’m the kind of person who takes action.”
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Set weekly experiments: Instead of just reading about confidence, try talking to a stranger. Instead of watching gym videos, go to the gym once.
🔹 4. Believe in Yourself – Train Your Inner Voice
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Catch your inner critic: Notice negative self-talk like “I can’t do this” and reframe it: “I’m learning how to do this.”
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Celebrate small wins: Write down one thing you did well each day. Let your mind register growth.
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Mirror talk: Say affirmations like “I believe in myself” looking into your eyes in the mirror every morning.
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Surround with believers: Spend more time with those who uplift you and challenge you positively.
🔹 5. Faith in Yourself – Build Resilience Through Action
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Create a “Why I’ll Win” list: List 5 reasons you’ll succeed based on past wins, inner values, or dreams.
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Fail forward: Take one bold risk every week. Whether it works or not, reflect and move on.
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Don’t wait for permission: Launch that blog, share your voice, start the side project — don’t wait till you “feel ready”.
🔹 6. We Are What We Think – Train Your Mind Daily
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Mental diet: Be aware of what you consume—news, music, social media. Choose things that uplift your mindset.
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Gratitude journaling: Write 3 good things that happened every night. Train your brain to look for light, not darkness.
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Positive reframe challenge: Every time something goes wrong, force yourself to write one gift that came out of it.
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Visualization: Every morning, visualize your ideal life. That thought energy will shape your day.
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